Friday, March 6, 2015

Dear Mama....Back to Business, Happy "Chinese" New Year!

Classes resumed and I had to plan classes with no set guidelines. It was a more relaxed 2 weeks. It was a little sad because those were the last classes with the 6th graders. I didn't even get to say goodbye to my favorite class on the last day. Not only was it goodbye for the 6th grade, it was also goodbye to the principal, vice-principal and my head co-teacher. It was my first time going to a retirement party and it was so cute. The principal's family came, there were special video messages from the students and teachers, the teachers did a cute dance wearing toy headbands and there was a special tribute video. The principal even shared his gift of playing the saxophone...and the gift of spam!







Before the goodbye dinners it was the Seollal holiday aka Chinese New Year. It seems like just yesterday that I was celebrating Seollal with a homestay family in Seoul. To celebrate the holiday this year, I went to a farm party which happened to be on valentine's day. I was happy to be able to spend it with people seeing as my friends had dates. There was only one other foreigner from Hong Kong which was s little unexpected. Most of the Koreans were students and some spoke English well. The ones who couldn't still made an effort...well some. We went to a farm house in Yeongpyeong in the Gyeonggi province. It was so country the road wasn't even paved. It was very quiet and peaceful. We ate a huge lunch with FRESH chicken picked right from the backyard. Then, we played some traditional games called Tuho and Yunnori. They also had a competition to see who could pick up the most beans using chopsticks in the shortest amount of time. I won that game...twice! It was a lot of fun playing games, snacking on fresh strawberries and learning how to make songpyeon.











My roommate happened to also be a designer and everyone kept praising her. When I told a couple people I did   that too they just ignored me so I was a little jealous. All they see you as is a teacher once you say you're a teacher. Later on, each team made dinner together for a cooking competition. As soon as they said start everyone was off doing things and I kept asking what I should make or do to help but no one was really responding. It was a little unorganized to me because there was no leader to sit down and lay out what each person's contribution should be. I seemed to be the only one left out of the loop until one of the organizers asked if I wanted to make something on my own. I figured I would do an omelette but it just turned into a square fried egg that they used for the bibimbap. But it was one tasty egg! The hosts judged our team dishes but I think it was a tie.



We finished it off before enjoying music by the bonfire. My phone had stopped working for no obvious reason so I was a little down about that throughout the day. I didn't get to record the bands but they sounded great and one of the singers gave me a box of truffles for valentine's day. It was also my first time sleeping in a hanok during the winter so I didn't know what to expect. The rooms use floor heating so the back of my body was warm while the front was cold. I woke up with a headache. The rest of the day was a repeat of cooking together with no direction so I just relaxed on the side. The hosts were really sweet and gave everyone  homemade soybean paste. I wish I knew how to cook it. The rest of the week I was sick, again, so I stayed in the house the whole time.

When I got back to school, I was alone the first two days but when my co-teachers came back I learned a little more about the re-organization of teachers for the next school year. My 4th grade co-teacher is now my head co-teacher even though I will not teach with her and she no longer teaches English. She will be a 2nd grade homeroom teacher. I have new 4th grade and 5th grade co-teachers. I did not find out my schedule until the first day of school! So unorganized!! I have been in a funk ever since October where I am ready to leave and get annoyed by everything in Korea. I thought my vacation would be a break away to recoup but it didn't help because I still feel the same. The school year starting off this disorganized doesn't help the situation much either.

Dear Mama....I'm in Thailand, Part 3

This was probably a very wasted day but I was still excited to ride on a sleeper train. And surprisingly it was very relaxing. The next morning, I was in Bangkok. I went to a this hotel because it was a pickup location for my next tour. The front desk staff was less than helpful though but finally I was able to notify the tour company that I was waiting for pickup. I met this funny couple from New Zealand. As we were visiting the famous Buddhist temples we saw actually ceremonies held by the monks. The New Zealand man lagged behind at one temple to pray and later mentioned how his daughter was sick and it couldn't hurt to pray wherever he could even if it wasn't his religion. That was interesting theory and I am sure with all the spiritual activities around us one can't help but feel encouraged and motivated.





Our tour guide

Real gold Buddha



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At the end of the tour they took us to a gemstone gallery. It was beautiful to look at but I was not about to spend all my money on rubies and sapphires. After checking into my hostel and eating lunch, I got ready for my Thai cooking class. It was a fun class because the teacher was such a comedian. He had a joke for everything but he was still informative. I guess that's why so many people were returning visitors. I met many other travelers including a girl from North Carolina who was studying abroad in Thailand. I tried to get some advice from her on what to do for my last night out but she was more interested in talking to the guy next to us about what to do for his bachelor party. A older couple shared an observation I had that when they see other foreigners they just walk past and ignore them. Except with other black people, that happens to me too.

I was hoping to find someone to hang out with my last night. I wouldn't mind going to a cabaret or ladyboy show or even to see some Thai boxing. Since I didn't know what to do I decided to go to one of the popular night markets near the cooking class and pick up some souvenirs. I left with another girl from the cooking class who was a flight attendant from Hong Kong. On the way to the metro I saw a huge rat and made a gasping noise. As soon as she heard me, she took off running in the street without even looking back. It was hilarious. Eventually she slowed down and I caught up to her. She said she was scared of stuff like that...that's why she didn't want to walk alone. She was nice though. When I got to the night market I saw a lot of the same stuff except there were go go dancing bars on the side. I only had a little money left so I had to be wise.
I had no energy for bargaining and I guess the vendors didn't either. Some looked like they didn't want to be bothered while others basically ignored me or pushed me out the store by following behind me so closely. I saw these beautiful silk pant skirts and asked the price. Since it was too high I started to walk away but the lady wanted me to bargain down the price. I kept walking when suddenly she yelled out an ultimate low price, something like $3. When I walked back to her to ask her if she would really sell it at that price, she just ignored me. I found some art and bought it for the price the lady told me but I think it was overpriced. I only had enough for one more thing and I gave the amount left over to a beggar on the street. Then it dawned on me that I need money to pay for the train ride back to the airport!












I took the metro part of the way and walked the rest of the way to my hostel because I started to panic. When I got to my hostel I wanted to confirm with the staff how much the train cost to go back to the airport. I was short 10 baht! I don't know why but one of the staff members gave me the whole fare to the airport. I felt so bad but thankful. The people of Thailand really are kind and generous. As you can assume, I made it back to Korea ok...let the shoving begin. I thought my vacation would make me miss it but I only missed the bathroom.




P.S. - I am going to avoid flying China Eastern because they always stop at Shanghai Pudong Airport which is the worst. I wrote a very detailed feedback form explaining why it's the worst. It deters me from ever wanting to visit China.